God is 100% MAN and everything else is a mixture of male and female characteristics. If female characteristics dominate, human is called a girl, otherwise a boy.
Now, I have a feeling that even souls that were formed by God are male and female.
I have a feeling that Bhai Sahib Randhir Singh(male soul) and Mata Kartar Kaur(female soul) were made for each other by God. I am also sure that souls also exist in pairs.

Harinder vir........have you booked that appointment yet?

ਮੇਰਾ ਮਾਤ ਪਿਤਾ ਗੁਰੁ ਸਤਿਗੁਰੁ ਪੂਰਾ ਗੁਰ ਜਲ ਮਿਲਿ ਕਮਲੁ ਵਿਗਸੈ ਜੀਉ ॥੩॥

Mėra maat pita gur satgur pura gur jal mil kamal vigsai jio ||3||

Vaheguru is Nirgun. Parm-atma is Nirgun. Atma is Nirgun.

The Sargun attributes that you are talking of are of a temporary nature.

Sat shri Akal to vevery one,

Soul or atma has no characteristics or attributes. soul takes male or female body when its Moh is in that Body. thats is why Maharaj ji is telling See ur Older lady as ur mother and Younger as ur sister.