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i think ive broken my amrit! please help me!
Posted by: Sardar (IP Logged)
Date: May 07, 2008 04:17PM

i dont know what i did dont know for sure but something always strikes me back like some force i cant understand i dont know i wana respect gurbani the gurus the gursikhs but i simply have no love and respect left i dont knoow whats wrong its probably ego i need help

 



Re: i think ive broken my amrit! please help me!
Posted by: singhbj (IP Logged)
Date: May 08, 2008 05:09AM

Waheguru ji ka khalsa
Waheguru ji ki fateh

Sardar Sahib ji,

I would strongly recommend that you get into Saadh Sangat and avoid bad company !

ਮਾਝ ਮਹਲਾ ੪ ॥
Maajh, Fourth Mehl:


ਹਰਿ ਜਨ ਸੰਤ ਮਿਲਹੁ ਮੇਰੇ ਭਾਈ ॥
O servants of the Lord, O Saints, O my Siblings of Destiny, let us join together!


ਮੇਰਾ ਹਰਿ ਪ੍ਰਭੁ ਦਸਹੁ ਮੈ ਭੁਖ ਲਗਾਈ ॥
Show me the way to my Lord God-I am so hungry for Him!


ਮੇਰੀ ਸਰਧਾ ਪੂਰਿ ਜਗਜੀਵਨ ਦਾਤੇ ਮਿਲਿ ਹਰਿ ਦਰਸਨਿ ਮਨੁ ਭੀਜੈ ਜੀਉ ॥੧॥
Please reward my faith, O Life of the World, O Great Giver. Obtaining the Blessed Vision of the Lord's Darshan, my mind is fulfilled. ||1||


ਮਿਲਿ ਸਤਸੰਗਿ ਬੋਲੀ ਹਰਿ ਬਾਣੀ ॥
Joining the Sat Sangat, the True Congregation, I chant the Bani of the Lord's Word.


ਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਕਥਾ ਮੇਰੈ ਮਨਿ ਭਾਣੀ ॥
The Sermon of the Lord, Har, Har, is pleasing to my mind.


ਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਅੰਮ੍ਰਿਤੁ ਹਰਿ ਮਨਿ ਭਾਵੈ ਮਿਲਿ ਸਤਿਗੁਰ ਅੰਮ੍ਰਿਤੁ ਪੀਜੈ ਜੀਉ ॥੨॥
The Ambrosial Nectar of the Lord's Name, Har, Har, is so sweet to my mind. Meeting the True Guru, I drink in this Ambrosial Nectar. ||2||


ਵਡਭਾਗੀ ਹਰਿ ਸੰਗਤਿ ਪਾਵਹਿ ॥
By great good fortune, the Lord's Congregation is found,


ਭਾਗਹੀਨ ਭ੍ਰਮਿ ਚੋਟਾ ਖਾਵਹਿ ॥
while the unfortunate ones wander around in doubt, enduring painful beatings.


ਬਿਨੁ ਭਾਗਾ ਸਤਸੰਗੁ ਨ ਲਭੈ ਬਿਨੁ ਸੰਗਤਿ ਮੈਲੁ ਭਰੀਜੈ ਜੀਉ ॥੩॥
Without good fortune, the Sat Sangat is not found; without this Sangat, people are stained with filth and pollution. ||3||


ਮੈ ਆਇ ਮਿਲਹੁ ਜਗਜੀਵਨ ਪਿਆਰੇ ॥
Come and meet me, O Life of the World, my Beloved.


ਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਦਇਆ ਮਨਿ ਧਾਰੇ ॥
Please bless me with Your Mercy, and enshrine Your Name, Har, Har, within my mind.


ਗੁਰਮਤਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਮੀਠਾ ਮਨਿ ਭਾਇਆ ਜਨ ਨਾਨਕ ਨਾਮਿ ਮਨੁ ਭੀਜੈ ਜੀਉ ॥੪॥੪॥
Through the Guru's Teachings, the Sweet Name has become pleasing to my mind. Servant Nanak's mind is drenched and delighted with the Naam. ||4||4||

Source: [www.srigranth.org]


For ego, i would recommend that you start doing Seva of Saadh Sangat at Gurudwara. Listen to Gurbani or do Simran along with Seva. This will make you humble and help in keeping cool. Removing ego is the most difficult task for any human. It can only be removed by practicing the word of the Guru's Shabad.

ਵਡਹੰਸੁ ਮਹਲਾ ੩ ॥
Wadahans, Third Mehl:


ਹਉਮੈ ਨਾਵੈ ਨਾਲਿ ਵਿਰੋਧੁ ਹੈ ਦੁਇ ਨ ਵਸਹਿ ਇਕ ਠਾਇ ॥
Ego is opposed to the Name of the Lord; the two do not dwell in the same place.


ਹਉਮੈ ਵਿਚਿ ਸੇਵਾ ਨ ਹੋਵਈ ਤਾ ਮਨੁ ਬਿਰਥਾ ਜਾਇ ॥੧॥
In egotism, selfless service cannot be performed, and so the soul goes unfulfilled. ||1||


ਹਰਿ ਚੇਤਿ ਮਨ ਮੇਰੇ ਤੂ ਗੁਰ ਕਾ ਸਬਦੁ ਕਮਾਇ ॥
O my mind, think of the Lord, and practice the Word of the Guru's Shabad.


ਹੁਕਮੁ ਮੰਨਹਿ ਤਾ ਹਰਿ ਮਿਲੈ ਤਾ ਵਿਚਹੁ ਹਉਮੈ ਜਾਇ ॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
If you submit to the Hukam of the Lord's Command, then you shall meet with the Lord; only then will your ego depart from within. ||Pause||


ਹਉਮੈ ਸਭੁ ਸਰੀਰੁ ਹੈ ਹਉਮੈ ਓਪਤਿ ਹੋਇ ॥
Egotism is within all bodies; through egotism, we come to be born.


ਹਉਮੈ ਵਡਾ ਗੁਬਾਰੁ ਹੈ ਹਉਮੈ ਵਿਚਿ ਬੁਝਿ ਨ ਸਕੈ ਕੋਇ ॥੨॥
Egotism is total darkness; in egotism, no one can understand anything. ||2||


ਹਉਮੈ ਵਿਚਿ ਭਗਤਿ ਨ ਹੋਵਈ ਹੁਕਮੁ ਨ ਬੁਝਿਆ ਜਾਇ ॥
In egotism, devotional worship cannot be performed, and the Hukam of the Lord's Command cannot be understood.


ਹਉਮੈ ਵਿਚਿ ਜੀਉ ਬੰਧੁ ਹੈ ਨਾਮੁ ਨ ਵਸੈ ਮਨਿ ਆਇ ॥੩॥
In egotism, the soul is in bondage, and the Naam, the Name of the Lord, does not come to abide in the mind. ||3||


ਨਾਨਕ ਸਤਗੁਰਿ ਮਿਲਿਐ ਹਉਮੈ ਗਈ ਤਾ ਸਚੁ ਵਸਿਆ ਮਨਿ ਆਇ ॥
O Nanak, meeting with the True Guru, egotism is eliminated, and then, the True Lord comes to dwell in the mind||


ਸਚੁ ਕਮਾਵੈ ਸਚਿ ਰਹੈ ਸਚੇ ਸੇਵਿ ਸਮਾਇ ॥੪॥੯॥੧੨॥
One starts practicing truth, abides in truth and by serving the True One gets absorbed in Him. ||4||9||12||

Source: [www.srigranth.org]


Amrit is broken if one performs any of the 4 Bujjar Kurehit's (cardinal sins)

1. Use of Tobacco and other intoxicants.
2. Dishonoring, alteration, or tampering of any hair.
3. Eating Kuttha
4. Cohabitation with other than one’s spouse.

Waheguru ji ka khalsa
Waheguru ji ki fateh

 



Re: i think ive broken my amrit! please help me!
Posted by: Sardar (IP Logged)
Date: May 08, 2008 10:34AM

singhbj Wrote:
-------------------------------------------------------
> Waheguru ji ka khalsa
> Waheguru ji ki fateh
>
> Sardar Sahib ji,
>
> I would strongly recommend that you get into Saadh
> Sangat and avoid bad company !
>
> ਮਾਝ ਮਹਲਾ ੪ ॥
> Maajh, Fourth Mehl:
>
>
> ਹਰਿ ਜਨ ਸੰਤ ਮਿਲਹੁ
> ਮੇਰੇ ਭਾਈ ॥
> O servants of the Lord, O Saints, O my Siblings of
> Destiny, let us join together!
>
>
> ਮੇਰਾ ਹਰਿ ਪ੍ਰਭੁ
> ਦਸਹੁ ਮੈ ਭੁਖ ਲਗਾਈ ॥
> Show me the way to my Lord God-I am so hungry for
> Him!
>
>
> ਮੇਰੀ ਸਰਧਾ ਪੂਰਿ
> ਜਗਜੀਵਨ ਦਾਤੇ ਮਿਲਿ
> ਹਰਿ ਦਰਸਨਿ ਮਨੁ ਭੀਜੈ
> ਜੀਉ ॥੧॥
> Please reward my faith, O Life of the World, O
> Great Giver. Obtaining the Blessed Vision of the
> Lord's Darshan, my mind is fulfilled. ||1||
>
>
> ਮਿਲਿ ਸਤਸੰਗਿ ਬੋਲੀ
> ਹਰਿ ਬਾਣੀ ॥
> Joining the Sat Sangat, the True Congregation, I
> chant the Bani of the Lord's Word.
>
>
> ਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਕਥਾ ਮੇਰੈ
> ਮਨਿ ਭਾਣੀ ॥
> The Sermon of the Lord, Har, Har, is pleasing to
> my mind.
>
>
> ਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਅੰਮ੍ਰਿਤੁ
> ਹਰਿ ਮਨਿ ਭਾਵੈ ਮਿਲਿ
> ਸਤਿਗੁਰ ਅੰਮ੍ਰਿਤੁ
> ਪੀਜੈ ਜੀਉ ॥੨॥
> The Ambrosial Nectar of the Lord's Name, Har, Har,
> is so sweet to my mind. Meeting the True Guru, I
> drink in this Ambrosial Nectar. ||2||
>
>
> ਵਡਭਾਗੀ ਹਰਿ ਸੰਗਤਿ
> ਪਾਵਹਿ ॥
> By great good fortune, the Lord's Congregation is
> found,
>
>
> ਭਾਗਹੀਨ ਭ੍ਰਮਿ ਚੋਟਾ
> ਖਾਵਹਿ ॥
> while the unfortunate ones wander around in doubt,
> enduring painful beatings.
>
>
> ਬਿਨੁ ਭਾਗਾ ਸਤਸੰਗੁ ਨ
> ਲਭੈ ਬਿਨੁ ਸੰਗਤਿ
> ਮੈਲੁ ਭਰੀਜੈ ਜੀਉ ॥੩॥
> Without good fortune, the Sat Sangat is not found;
> without this Sangat, people are stained with filth
> and pollution. ||3||
>
>
> ਮੈ ਆਇ ਮਿਲਹੁ ਜਗਜੀਵਨ
> ਪਿਆਰੇ ॥
> Come and meet me, O Life of the World, my Beloved.
>
>
>
> ਹਰਿ ਹਰਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਦਇਆ
> ਮਨਿ ਧਾਰੇ ॥
> Please bless me with Your Mercy, and enshrine Your
> Name, Har, Har, within my mind.
>
>
> ਗੁਰਮਤਿ ਨਾਮੁ ਮੀਠਾ
> ਮਨਿ ਭਾਇਆ ਜਨ ਨਾਨਕ
> ਨਾਮਿ ਮਨੁ ਭੀਜੈ ਜੀਉ
> ॥੪॥੪॥
> Through the Guru's Teachings, the Sweet Name has
> become pleasing to my mind. Servant Nanak's mind
> is drenched and delighted with the Naam. ||4||4||
>
>
> Source:
> [www.srigranth.org]
> ction=Page&g=1&h=1&r=1&t=1&p=0&k=0&Param=95
>
>
> For ego, i would recommend that you start doing
> Seva of Saadh Sangat at Gurudwara. Listen to
> Gurbani or do Simran along with Seva. This will
> make you humble and help in keeping cool. Removing
> ego is the most difficult task for any human. It
> can only be removed by practicing the word of the
> Guru's Shabad.
>
> ਵਡਹੰਸੁ ਮਹਲਾ ੩ ॥
> Wadahans, Third Mehl:
>
>
> ਹਉਮੈ ਨਾਵੈ ਨਾਲਿ
> ਵਿਰੋਧੁ ਹੈ ਦੁਇ ਨ
> ਵਸਹਿ ਇਕ ਠਾਇ ॥
> Ego is opposed to the Name of the Lord; the two do
> not dwell in the same place.
>
>
> ਹਉਮੈ ਵਿਚਿ ਸੇਵਾ ਨ
> ਹੋਵਈ ਤਾ ਮਨੁ ਬਿਰਥਾ
> ਜਾਇ ॥੧॥
> In egotism, selfless service cannot be performed,
> and so the soul goes unfulfilled. ||1||
>
>
> ਹਰਿ ਚੇਤਿ ਮਨ ਮੇਰੇ ਤੂ
> ਗੁਰ ਕਾ ਸਬਦੁ ਕਮਾਇ ॥
> O my mind, think of the Lord, and practice the
> Word of the Guru's Shabad.
>
>
> ਹੁਕਮੁ ਮੰਨਹਿ ਤਾ ਹਰਿ
> ਮਿਲੈ ਤਾ ਵਿਚਹੁ ਹਉਮੈ
> ਜਾਇ ॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥
> If you submit to the Hukam of the Lord's Command,
> then you shall meet with the Lord; only then will
> your ego depart from within. ||Pause||
>
>
> ਹਉਮੈ ਸਭੁ ਸਰੀਰੁ ਹੈ
> ਹਉਮੈ ਓਪਤਿ ਹੋਇ ॥
> Egotism is within all bodies; through egotism, we
> come to be born.
>
>
> ਹਉਮੈ ਵਡਾ ਗੁਬਾਰੁ ਹੈ
> ਹਉਮੈ ਵਿਚਿ ਬੁਝਿ ਨ
> ਸਕੈ ਕੋਇ ॥੨॥
> Egotism is total darkness; in egotism, no one can
> understand anything. ||2||
>
>
> ਹਉਮੈ ਵਿਚਿ ਭਗਤਿ ਨ
> ਹੋਵਈ ਹੁਕਮੁ ਨ ਬੁਝਿਆ
> ਜਾਇ ॥
> In egotism, devotional worship cannot be
> performed, and the Hukam of the Lord's Command
> cannot be understood.
>
>
> ਹਉਮੈ ਵਿਚਿ ਜੀਉ ਬੰਧੁ
> ਹੈ ਨਾਮੁ ਨ ਵਸੈ ਮਨਿ ਆਇ
> ॥੩॥
> In egotism, the soul is in bondage, and the Naam,
> the Name of the Lord, does not come to abide in
> the mind. ||3||
>
>
> ਨਾਨਕ ਸਤਗੁਰਿ ਮਿਲਿਐ
> ਹਉਮੈ ਗਈ ਤਾ ਸਚੁ ਵਸਿਆ
> ਮਨਿ ਆਇ ॥
> O Nanak, meeting with the True Guru, egotism is
> eliminated, and then, the True Lord comes to dwell
> in the mind||
>
>
> ਸਚੁ ਕਮਾਵੈ ਸਚਿ ਰਹੈ
> ਸਚੇ ਸੇਵਿ ਸਮਾਇ
> ॥੪॥੯॥੧੨॥
> One starts practicing truth, abides in truth and
> by serving the True One gets absorbed in Him.
> ||4||9||12||
>
> Source:
> [www.srigranth.org]
> ction=Page&g=1&h=1&r=1&t=1&p=0&k=0&Param=560
>
>
> Amrit is broken if one performs any of the 4
> Bujjar Kurehit's (cardinal sins)
>
> 1. Use of Tobacco and other intoxicants.
> 2. Dishonoring, alteration, or tampering of any
> hair.
> 3. Eating Kuttha
> 4. Cohabitation with other than one’s spouse.
>
> Waheguru ji ka khalsa
> Waheguru ji ki fateh

thanks a lot :)

 





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